This is not going to be long here. I guess because the line of logic is short and sweet. My good people I have an announcement to make....numbers talk. I swear they do. I have heard this several times in my life and I never really gave it too much thought until now.
We all have heard that money talks, but that's something different. This time I am only referring to numbers. You may ask, "What do you mean?". I'm glad you asked!
In our lives and times we meet, greet, and develop relationships with various characters from all different walks of life. I mean traditional families, single parent homes, drug heads, students, girls, guys, bis, preachers, teachers, the list goes on and on. We meet them and get to know them the same way they meet us and get to know us. We carry on conversations with other people about other people we know and if you're not careful one person will think they know someone just because how much we talk about them...(whew). This is where I get to my point.
Out of all the people we know and have known, the sum of similar descriptions says a lot. Let me make it plain. You may not like it but if a substantial number of the people you know or that know you describe you in a similar fashion then it says a lot. For example, if a guy is described by 10 people that he knows and that know him as a hustler, then chances are that is what he is. Likewise if the same guy is described by the same amount of people as a woman beater, then, as a lady, you need to get your fight skills up! If a woman is described by a great deal of people that she knows as a happy, loving woman then a good guy has a chance of making a relationship. But on the other hand if she is described as a low down bi#^% then, as a guy looking for love, you need to keep it pushing.
I will take it one step further..When is the last time that 10 people called someone Willie the Wino and he wasn't a drunk? When is the last time 10 people called some woman a gold digger and she just wanted a guy with a little bit of money? When is the last time 10 people said that a dude was a homo and he wasn't? When is the last time 10 people said someone was a crackhead and they didn't smoke crack? There may be some exceptions because there always are a few...but you know exactly what I'm saying.
So the question is, what would 10 people that you know say about you? The truth about it is, the numbers talk better than we do.
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