(grammar) You ain't gone find it.
But don't worry, it's out there...it's not hiding from you, it's headed your way. The only problem is I can't tell you how long the journey is. Your love could be in the same general vicinity or on the other side of the world.
But don't worry, it's out there...it's not hiding from you, it's headed your way. The only problem is I can't tell you how long the journey is. Your love could be in the same general vicinity or on the other side of the world.
"Well if it's out there why can't I look?" Glad you asked. It's a real simple answer too. There is no criteria.
You can take the next several seconds and try to think of the criteria for loving someone, but I promise you will only come up with the characteristics that you think you like.
(Once again I crucify myself for your reading pleasure)
See for me she would have to be 5 ft. something with nice hair (short or long...nice was the word). I "love" a quick mind and a dry sense of truth and humor. I need to see some curves...doesn't have to be extraordinary but hey I'm just talking about me. Responsibility, kindness, and self-respect are prerequisites for even talking. I have a few more things, but you get the picture.
Now here's the issue. Even when I find all of those qualities that I "love" and want so much; it doesn't equal up to what I'm actually looking for. None of those qualities equal up to or can serve as a substitute for that feeling of completion. That quick mind and those curves and nice hair can be the attributes that lead to oblivion either through misuse or abuse of those same qualities. If they know you like/want it they will use it for gain. That's not mean, it's human nature.
Don't get caught up looking for the things you think you love, wait for the person who embodies the qualities you come to appreciate over time. Those things can't be used against you.
So have fun but be patient because the truth about it is you will never find love looking for it.
