Being Alone SUCKS…

Fact: Being alone sucks.

Fact: The people that say they enjoy it soooo much are lying.

Fact: You can make the best out of it and focus on bettering yourself.

Fact: Being alone sucks.

Fact: The problem with being alone is more than just being alone.

You can decide that my facts are not true and I challenge anyone to that debate.

So now that the initial information has been processed here is the whole deal about being alone. For most people there comes a time when we, for whatever reason, find ourselves without a mate or that special someone. Sometimes it’s for good reason and sometimes it’s for not so good reasons. Either way we are all overwhelmed by the same feelings, emotional roller coasters, and ill-thought through generalizations that plague the other loners.

For most people this becomes a time of reflection and thoughts of personal growth and development. I know for sure that people think about all that led up to the time alone. I also know for sure that people think about personal growth and development at the time. I also know for sure that many if not most people fail to implement anything in the realm of personal growth and development. What I mean by that is we vilify the other person, justify our own mistakes, and then go right back to whatever it was we were doing. That’s all I’m going to say about that because this is about why being alone sucks and not about what to do during “vacation”.

Being alone sucks for many reasons. There is no one there to share laughs. No pillow talk. No immediate person to bounce ideas off of. No help with the bills. Thoughts of inadequacies. I could go on forever but I won’t continue because all of those things pale in comparison to the real reason why being alone sucks.

The worst part; the torturous part; the part that eats away at our insides; the part that really sucks is recognizing you are alone when you REALLY need someone. It’s a horrible thing. That’s the part about being alone that makes people just go get someone to have somebody there for the next time. It will make people settle for people they know are not right or settle for people who have already proven they weren’t right the first time. It makes ugly people look good, dangerous people look harmless, and good-looking people look like gods and goddesses. It breeds lust and irrational thoughts.

No need to worry though…there are plenty of people out there looking for someone and the odds are in your favor but the truth about it is, until you find them…being alone SUCKS. IJS.