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Friday, August 7, 2015

Calling Rosa



I am deeply troubled. It is the year 2015, it feels like the racial divide is widening, civil rights are being threatened, and black folks in particular are being killed like dogs in the street. I wish I was exaggerating but I’m being all too sincere. The cards have been dealt and we are in the middle of the most deadly game of poker ever undertaken and it’s not looking good. There IS a belief, shared by many in law enforcement, that black people have a predisposition to violence and animalistic qualities. There IS immediate protection, fund raising, and rabid defense of any officer involved in these recent shootings. There IS a very urgent need for the black community to respond. The logistics of that response are up for discussion…BUT we can’t talk. We can’t talk because we have too many black people “calling Rosa”.


Most of us have been taught that Rosa Parks was the catalyst for the Civil Rights Movement. In recent years people have had disagreements about that, but the majority of us know the story. She wouldn’t give up her seat on the bus. Boycott Time. The black people (and some white people) joined together and started a boycott that they didn’t think would work, but they did it anyway to make their voices heard and the snowball of civil rights was given a big push down a steep hill.

…but in my mind I hear the pathetic voices of a few cowardly black people on the back of the bus “calling Rosa”. They are telling her to just get up before the bus driver gets mad. They are telling her that it isn’t worth the risk. Can you hear them? They are saying, “Hey Rosa. You gonna get us all put off dis bus. Quit giving these folks a hard time seeing as how they nice enough to let us ride.”—never mind the fact that they paid. Listen and you can hear them too.

Every time we try to cry out about the latest black person to be brutally shot, severely injured, beaten to a pulp, or killed in custody I hear them. They say, “What about the black on black crime?!”—calling Rosa. They say, “Police only kill us because we don’t care about ourselves.”-- You hear them?-- They say, “If we had fathers in the home then none of this would be happening”, or “Teach our young men to pull their pants up”, or “If we had more jobs in the black community it wouldn’t happen”.—calling Rosa.

If the issue is police killing black folk then THAT is the issue. You can never win a debate by offering mitigating factors for your opponents’ argument. I saw something on IG that asked: Do you run in the race for breast cancer screaming about the other forms of cancer? No. Perfect example. Why though? Because if you did that you would be minimizing the cause you are currently running for. Do you know what happens when our people “call Rosa”? The same powers that oppress us, bind us, and kill us use those words and ideas as justification for the tactics. (Please read that again)

The problem with “calling Rosa” in 2015, is we know the good that came out of her stance. We all benefitted as a country from her backbone and bravery. Why would you call her now if you already know what’s going to happen because of her? Are you so scared of getting “put off dis bus” that you are willing to subject your children and grandchildren to the treatment that we are witnessing? That’s who is going be getting treated like this soon. Do you think these officers are deciding to shoot black individuals based on whether or not they think that individual has been violent towards another black person? What about this one…”just stop the crime in the hood and they will leave”. Newsflash: If we stop all crime in the hood one of two things will happen. The police will either search harder and more ruthlessly to try to find something in the hood, or they will believe that the “blacks” are up to something and REALLY search harder and more ruthlessly to try to find something in the hood. Please don’t forget that many of your local budgets are supported by these “street crime” cases, the prison system is largely for-profit so they MUST have prisoners, and the people NOT affected by the heavy police presence, police super-scrutiny, and police brutality would rather use the current system than to pay higher property taxes.

“We are all AMERICANS”—calling Rosa. You can’t claim the status of a group, who in every way, is saying we don’t want you. You have to take status… ironically, the same way they got status.

“We are supposed to forgive”—calling Rosa. I’m striving to be a Christian, but I can assure you that I do not believe that Christianity is a religion of weakness, passivity, cowardice, nor ignorance. Then why are we preaching that doctrine to His people? We have brainwashed our people into forgiving the killers before they are even caught. We are trying to be like Him right? Well He only throws our sin into the sea of forgetfulness AFTER we repent. We aren’t preparing our people to fight or to even stand. We aren’t preaching the strength of God supporting a cause that is just and good. How much strength did it take to carry that cross? How much fear had to be overcome when it was time to face His death? How much pain was endured through the lashes and the crucifixion? By his stripes we are healed…but does that really mean now we don’t have to do anything? The church was the very backbone of our mission to achieve basic rights. What happened? Pastors are “calling Rosa” too and they are teaching our people how to do it. We all have points in the Bible that we draw from. I draw from the part where it says something like “Father forgive them for they know not what they do”. Oh, oh, but he couldn’t have been talking about the officers and personnel on many of the videos I have seen. These people know exactly what they are doing because they plant evidence and lie AND other officers support them in it. If it weren’t for the invention of portable video cameras on phones, NONE of this stuff would have even been taken note of.

So the question becomes one of what to do. We, as the black community, need to do something and really fast. I don’t know if we need a black militia, protection from the military, or some type of retaliation plan. We need to find a way to have a “family” discussion. I am certain, however, that we’re going to have a hard time if some of our brothers and sisters don’t stop “calling Rosa”.

 

_TTAII

Saturday, May 30, 2015

What If I Believed You


              At this point in my life I can honestly say that I think I have heard it all. I’ve heard cut downs, brutal truths, lies, exaggerations, completely meaningful things, meaningless incomplete things, and straight up bullshit (sorry). It was my earnest intent to list many quotes for the sheer benefit of reading them in written form, but that would probably be boring so I decided to change tactics. I believe the new approach will better let me get my point across.

                Anyone past 28 years of age should have come to the place where we realize that people will say anything. Famous lines shrouded in crap clusters include: “I got you”, “everything is fine”, “I would never do that to you”, “I love you”, and usually anything else that involves a specific commitment and/or a personal struggle. As in most instances, these quotes and others like them, are spoken in the moment because we are conditioned to participate in scripted conversation. We sense there is an emotional need and we sling words into the void to fill it. The problem is when our words are used as fillers, they are no longer words. Those cavity filling slogans become verbal contracts because contracts have the ability to stick to the sides of the cavern. Empty words fall into nothing, but contracts catch hold in different places and begin to give hope for a sufficient patch.

                I guess I could stay right there and harp on that aspect but I won’t. If at this point you don’t understand what I’m saying you probably won’t get the rest of it either. To make it clear… people tell you what they think you want to hear. It doesn’t mean that they actually mean anything by the words. If you try to make a contract out of someone’s empty words you will regret it. If you don’t know that just keep on living and I guarantee someone will show you.

                So many times in my life I wish I could have responded. There have been countless times when I decided to not say anything even though I was reading the situation and cast of characters like a children’s book. I tell people all of the time, “I talk and sound country, but I think city.” I say that because people listen to a southern drawl and think I’m slow or something. In most of those situations I push past the obvious only to have the obvious try to scare me. I’m not scared of the obvious though, so it really only pisses me off. Why does it piss me off? Glad you asked.

                Because WHAT IF I BELIEVED YOU??? I often think about where my life would be if I believed all that stuff. I had a preacher tell me that my Mom would be ok because he prayed for her. She’s ok now because she’s with the Lord but that wasn’t the intent of those words. What if I invested in that statement? Who would save him? Where would I be if I actually believed all the people who said “I love you” or “I’m here for you”? I don’t know the answer to where I would be, because it’s not a trip I’m willing to take. If you want to ride the roller coaster of hollow words then there is at least one seat available. You can have my seat even though it has cobwebs on it or if you’re already seated you can pass it on to a friend or family member… free of charge.

                I’m skeptical, I’m cautious, and I’m highly attentive. I play hard and after the last draft my roster still only had me on it. I am my own team. Have you ever seen a player pass a ball to a ghost? I haven’t either. The truth about it is, ghosts only exist if you believe in them.  And that’s exactly why I allow myself to ask “what if I believed you” and not deal with having believed.